Why are we happy?

From TED Talks:


"Dan Gilbert, author of Stumbling on Happiness, challenges the idea that we’ll be miserable if we don’t get what we want. Our "psychological immune system" lets us feel truly happy even when things don’t go as planned."


Check out the video and read the book, it's very refreshing!


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